Saturday, September 7, 2013

It's a great day to be a bookman

            What do you think about sales? This is what Seng Kiet asked me when we used Skype to have a conversation few months ago. I was so surprised that Lorraine actually called me for one day because we never used to hang out together so often back to the university life in Malaysia. She asked me whether I was interested to work for a book company so that I was able to save some money during this summer. When Seng Kiet (Lorraine's manager) gave me the presentation about the sales, I was impressed by Seng Kiet's sincerity. Since Lorraine and Seng Kiet were in Buffalo, New York and I was in Lincoln Nebraska, thus they had to use the computer to talk with me. I still remember, my answer to the question that Seng Kiet asked was "sales, for me, is a "win win" situation, you win I win everybody win". I felt this strongly after my summer came to the end. It was because I was actually improving myself (all kinds of skill) and I was actually helping Mrs. Jones to understand the words of God better.
            Few weeks later, Lorraine called me again and said there was a manager called Victor was coming to UNL and he was able to meet me up and talk more about it because I was actually having some thoughts. It was hard for me to take the first step and join this. Victor came to UNL quite often, whenever he came, we met up. The date was getting nearer but I felt like I didn't do much preparation for varsity as I was quite busy for personal schedule as well. The stressful thing was the moment when Spartan called me and asked me about the stuff related to driving license. Everything was settled in a real quick and inefficiency but luckily Tick Loong trained me for the sales talk and he shared a lot of his experience when he was a bookman.
           It was the time I was trained in sales school in Oxford Mississippi, I met a lot of people from Malaysia, Japan, Vietnam and China. I didn't used to drive often back to Malaysia so when I knew that I have to drive my own car from Louisiana to Oxford, I was stunned. The difficult thing that I had to go through in sales school was the approach and pre-approach demonstration. It was hard for me and I felt so down. A lot of managers said that I was so unfriendly, fierce, being not persistent of getting names and did not follow the so called the five elements of pre-approach. I was so stressful and felt like crying after that. However, I was told that the real situation was totally different when compared to the demonstration performed by managers.
            Here was the time, I followed my headquater manager, Louis to Alexander city in Alabama state. Everything still seemed blur for me but I got to knock my door. Nobody actually told me what was country side, what was country people, what was county, what was the difference between city and country side, what was the difference between the mentality of white people and black people and so on. I drove my car to the Wetumpka city and knocked my first door in city. It was hard for me to get into the house but yet, I got to notice the importance of conducting the 8 steps for sales:
1) Prospecting and pre-approach
2) Approaching the customers
3) Set up
4) Defining and fill in the need
5) Presenting the products
6) Responding to the objections
7) Closing
8) Cementing & Pre-approach
            Step one is the most important step in sales because it will save my time for finding the strong prospects. Besides that, we need to catch the Mrs. Jones at the right time. Specific questions must be asked so that we won’t catch the wrong people, we won’t miss catching people and we will get to know a little bit about the background of the person. Arranging the strong prospects is another crucial thing that need to pay attention to.
            Step two is hard for me because people used to build two kinds of images on me, one is serious and the other one is I look like a kid. I learnt to be friendly and give a big smile whenever people opened the door for me but sometimes it was still hard for me to enter the house. For my first two weeks, I had never followed my pre-approach properly. I just knocked the door randomly and visited them. After that, I knew the importance of building credibility by throwing the names that I have visited to Mrs. Jones. First image is very important, there was a Mrs. Jones, he analyzed my personality by interpreting the first image. I used to pay a good smile or else be joyful whenever I met people. I was surprised that some Mrs. Jones, they bought the books from me because they like my manners. Therefore, we should create a good image from the perspective of appearance, personality, smile, posture, gesture and manners when we step out to society for working.
            Step three is set up. Basically, set up is a step to build the credibility of our personality, let them feel more comfortable about you and get to know more about our Mrs. Jones so that they will decide whether should listen to you. Some Mrs. Jones, they were hearing to me but not listening to me. A good set up skill requires only one thing, which is sincerity. No matter what kind of situation besides selling, we should always tell the truth and try not to cheat Mrs. Jones. At this point, I am improving my life skill, which is to make Mrs. Jones feel interested on me. I am glad that some Mrs. Jones said, "tell me more about yourself, I found that you are interesting". Sometimes, I could see from Mrs. Jones's non verbal communication will imply that he/she really interested on you. By having a good set up skill, I was able to proceed easily. I was so surprised that I was able to sell some books in court house, city hall, saloon and gas station. The people in the court house even agreed to help me to take care of my bounce check personally without having me to go back to Alabama. Also, I learnt how to control some distractions as some of it really freak me out. With manipulation, the communication will be more effective and efficient.
            Step four is defining and fill in the need. This is how I analyzed what selling idea do I need to form so that Mrs. Jones will be interested to get the books. For example, those books can be a gift to others, donation to library, study guide, investment of education and as a collection. Same thing apply to our lives, we need to figure out what people really need, then we'll fill in their need by presenting what are most suitable for them.
            Step five is the presentation. Basically the key in this step is to gain attention of the audience. Try to make them feel interested about the books. What I did was, I used to relate the contents of the books to the real life of Mrs. Jones so that Mrs. Jones won’t feel boring and left out when I talk about the book. Sometimes, when I talk about something, Mrs. Jones get excited and tell me more about the matter happened to him/her. Once he/she get excited to share more about their story, this step is going to be a successful step. In this step, sometimes I take advantage of chance to continue my set up a little bit too. I did not afraid to show set although it was tiring. Sometimes, we talked out of the topic too, just like we need to think out of the box whenever we face to certain problem in order to look at the things at a different perspective.
            Step Six is about responding to objection. Some Mrs. Jones, they vocalized some strong objections because they did not want to or else unwilling to buy the books from us although they are able to afford it. This was hard for me because initially, I was so shy to push them to buy. I did not be persistent initially and just left the house when they said no. After that, I got to know that if I persistent to help myself, Mrs. Jones will help those who help themselves. Once somebody's objection has been responded properly, that person will feel more comfortable with you and it is easier to close. What I did was, I always relate the importance of the books to them.
           Step seven is the critical step for sales which is closing. If I do not close it properly, I might lose a lot of sales. During the closing part, I have to be very humble. First of all, I built the price credibility so that Mrs. Jones would feel that it was worth buying the books. At the same time, I did not push them too hard for buying the books. I tried to create a joyful and relax atmosphere so that they won’t feel pressure. Then, I explained the payment method that Mrs. Jones is able to deal with. Most crucial, I always tried to build a community spirit that everybody has been blessing me through college by getting the books from me. Also, I tried my best to help Mrs. Jones to get the books if they were unable to get it at that time.
            Step eight is about the cementing. This is an useful step because we do not want our customer to feel regret of buying the books. I personally think that this can be applied to our real life no matter what in order to make the person feel good for helping us. The main point is, he/she might be glad to help us again for the next time. Learning how to response to different Mrs. Jones in order to make them feel good is another life skill. Gradually, I know the importance of cementing when I actually got a book return from my Mrs. Jones.
            Actually, throughout the whole summer, I cried about two times. A lot of things happened such as, tire burst, sickness, people unfriendly to me, people invited me to have sex, working in heavy rains, and having hard time to bear my Mrs. Jones. I even changed my county about 3 times, from Elmore county to Macon county and Coosa county. I couldn't forget the difficult moments that I had been through in Macon county. Somebody told me, if you ever cried over something that you have contributed to, you will appreciate and get to know the beauty of your tears. What I have gone through have made me stronger and guide me to look at this world from different perspective. I am glad that I have overcome certain fears of unknown. I am glad that my manager always be with me to encourage me and keep my mind positive.

            Overall, what I learnt can't be completely told but I definitely have grown. I never ever feel regret to join Varsity. If somebody ever asked me, what is the most unforgettable memory of you for this year? I would say, those days when I was a bookman. I definitely going to apply what I have learned throughout the whole summer to my real life. Last but not least, I am so proud that I am a bookman. It's a great day to be a bookman.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

垃圾變黃金

有些垃圾,放不對地方,就沒有價值。放對了地方,又能怎樣呢?
即便是把它們給埋起來,有些物質,經過幾千年之後,還是會殘留在土裡面。
一個人,要多久清一清心裡的垃圾?一有了垃圾就要倒嗎?

以前,很多人說我是個心蠻軟的人。和一群人看戲,想掉淚的時候我會忍著,一直到眼眶泛紅。又或者,掉頭走人不去看那一幕。記得有一次,在家裡和一群人看《小孩不笨》的時候,那是非常丟臉的一個回憶。
自己一個人再看第二遍的時候,仍然是無法控制的。
看到自己討厭的人墮落難過的時候,我會忍不住想幫助他。
雖然我現在偶爾還是保持著一絲單純的心態,什麼原因,上了高中大學,我開始覺得世界是現實的,殘酷的。我會同情你,但我不會輕易採取任何行動。

昨天讀了某人寫的文章,我整個就很無語,再加上一丁點的怒氣和失望。原因是,自己和另一群朋友被那所謂的作者給侮辱了。可是之前我們卻真誠地在相處。開始覺得,這個人,我一點都不想再接觸這個人。和身邊的2位好朋友時不時的聊天,才發現這個人身邊多數的人都對這個人好假。背後還稱這個人做Bxxxx。
不過後來就算了,想起有人說啊,你不想接觸的人,少接觸就好,但還是得留一線以後凡事好相見。嘴巴是別人的,我動點怒氣幹嘛呢?我還真幼稚。
從來沒試過,以前也沒試過,一個人可以令自己嚴重來說“反感”得不想接觸。
從來也沒試過對某人那麼反感,這真的是第一次。
我當然也想好好的,一起做些美好的。不管這個人有沒有真正討厭我們或背後又覺得我們怎麼樣,我不想要有動力去討厭。
很心疼,我好朋友遭受著某種待遇。一個人缺少自尊的時候,真的會顯得非常卑賤,我實在看不下去。何況,這個人真的傲慢到完全不領情。(別怪我在這裡亂發牢騷,但其實也不算)
也別怪我無情,如果這個人有一天因為我們而難受,那是這個人自找的。當然,我不會變態到要主動出擊。

說說失望的點,我真的sibeh討厭到了我們這種年齡,還有那種小孩子“我要跟你好,我不要跟你好”的橋段出現。話說得也有點過份,說我們像土著又怎樣?至少我們很安分守己地也在努力。天生眼光好又如何?就能找自己同level的人,一起狗眼看人低。
說得自己倒很委屈,真的難以想像。我就是不喜歡這個人高高在上,偶爾叫人做東做西的款。開始覺得你像殭屍。

這一切的一切都是浮雲。我們有比這個更重要的東西去在意。

這幾天,一直遇到一些讓我很開心的人(Okay,有點神經,不多說這個)。
Joanne最近找我聊天的頻率很高。看來,她懊惱的事情也挺多的,可是我卻不懂怎麼幫她。
她隨時會被人冠上一些很不好的頭銜。
我說下學期,我在學校基本上就沒什麼朋友了。
“那我呢?” 她這句讓我有點errrrrrr 感動?但其實我表情是木納的。
說也奇怪,我們只同班一學期,直到現在我們依然能一星期出來吃一次飯。
我怎麼覺得你最近怪怪的?

最近和Edward混很熟,好幾次到過他家吃飯。認識這個人也是一種巧合吧。
就因為他當時被叫來幫我破了一個房間的密碼。
你做菜的氣勢,讓我很羨慕,哈哈。


最大最大的慶幸是,我們兩個其實沒有鬧僵也沒有鬧翻,因為我們都沒有吵過或頂過對方啊。
我知道你知道我怎麼想。但,你近期的半句或一句話,也足以讓我欣慰。這學期結束前,應該沒什麼美好的事情去創造了,因為我有時都覺得自己是多餘的。

垃圾要固定倒,要倒對地方卻不會造成麻煩,這樣就“舒服”了。
寫完了這篇,以後不對相關的東西多加評論了。
超嚮往暑假秋季的生活。

Thursday, February 7, 2013

台湾新春晚会

没想到,在这里的第一场event,就献给了台湾同学会的新春活动。这是个蛮中型的活动,人数大约有120左右.
我呢,还是和以前一样,活动当天,自己好像变了另一个人,脚步每一秒也变得又稳又快,对四周的状况保持极高的警觉性。
基于我们组织只有3人(包括我),很多时候很多东西都必须当机立断;拖一步,整个流程就会被影响。
这次答应Joanne帮忙,也是基于他们人数很少。基于人数少,我不仅仅是个主持人那么简单,简直占有着全方位的岗位。
活动前几天最让我受不了的是,他们真的很chill,完全不会紧张。以前我只要一紧张,就会想到组长跟我说过的一句话,紧张表示你在乎,所以你一定会办得到。这句话,对我影响还蛮大的,也只有从组长口中说出来,才会如此有影响力。
这个活动呢,基本上,让我得到许多感触。有搞笑的,温馨的,愤怒的,感动的。

我没资格检讨这个活动,但如果换作以前,我是直接当场很不给脸的把我的筹委骂个臭头。
来个简单的自我检讨好了:

1)身为主持,我没有做到很好的一点是,我很少跟台下的人互动。严重的是,我让台上的表演者尴尬,人家还没表演完我就把人家请下台,然后请下一组上台。在第一个表演的时候,我意识到前面电脑阻碍观众视线;正当我把它移开时,没注意到cable太短,它直接从speaker里面抽离了,导致音乐没了。庆幸的是音乐快到尾声了,小朋友继续清唱把它唱完。抽奖活动的时候很冷场,虽然不是我主持抽奖活动,可是没有事前跟会长和Joanne沟通好,真的导致抽奖气氛平平。
2)我应该抓紧时间和所有表演者协调一遍,彩排上下台走位,确认音乐等等。但基于人手不足,当天要忙很多东西,而且都手忙脚乱,没能好好协调。
3)我应该和会长brief一次所有的程序,才不会导致所有东西都是我做完。身为主持,我还要去负责幕后,策划,灯光,场地与音响等,忙不过来。
4)我应该要很早就察觉到,小朋友在台上清唱新年歌的时候,我可以带动台下所有人拍手打拍子。可是正当我要这么做的时候,他们就表演完了。
5)活动开始时,报到处所有重要东西没收好,包括钱,电脑。抽奖的彩劵没人控制。但的确,我们赚了不少钱。
6)晚餐的时候,人数太多,拿食物的场面非常混乱,我没控制好。
7)没有让来宾舒服地看表演:小提琴钢琴声音太小,音乐太小,灯光太暗,前面电脑阻碍视线,我应该把麦克风拉近。后来也向大家道了歉。
8)照理由来讲,魔术师帮我们做表演,我们应该送份礼物答谢,但我们没有。
9)家长带的食物太多,桌上摆不完,场面混乱没及时处理。
10)事先找好的短片没有找个空档播出来,但我觉得播出来也没人看,除了那个腾讯的过年广告。
11)最后,就是没有满足家长的需求。有些家长真的很龟毛!只是唱一首歌而已,都要跟我讨论细节讨论那么久,要求多多,pattern多多!真是TMD!态度那么嚣张那么恶劣还摆一副嘴脸,还把我当狗来使唤!而且,TMD竟然在小朋友面前称我为“大叔”!!!!我有那么老吗Aunty!

整个活动可以说是有惊有险,不过最后都圆满结束了,小朋友们都很卖力地演出。有些甚至让我非常羡慕(他们的才华)。

让我感动的事情是,Wayne和妹妹出席了这次的活动,虽然半途就离开了。Wayne本来不打算出席的,后来是我出软招才“请”到他来,算是蛮有心,还带食物来。

让我佩服自己的是,我以前从来没接触过场地/音响的职责,这次因为没有人主动去负责,我去了。我发觉,负责音响真的要保持着很好的耐性和冷静。所幸,我办到了。也算是证明了自己以前有资格去骂场地音响,哈哈。

无论如何,最后的整个活动的结果,好与坏都不重要,我都不应该去多想。以前二团长有跟我说,办一场活动,人家首先会看到的是你的付出。你有付出,别人肯定会看到。
我想这也是,不少家长的确有来慰问我,说今天最累的应该是我之类的或是给赞赏的。
这个活动,为我带来全身酸痛,也没有人帮我按摩!!!我想这一切付出是值得的~

Wayne和妹妹的出席